TTC + MOVING ON ⁣

I don’t know about you, but do you ever feel like others are thinking: ⁣ ⁣ Just get over it. ⁣

Move on. ⁣ ⁣ I struggle with that. ⁣ Only because, I don’t think it’s something we can forget. ⁣ ⁣ It’s happened TO us. ⁣ Once you’ve gone through it, you’ll always have some triggers, memories, and moments that take you right back. ⁣ ⁣ To be honest, I don’t want to move on from my miscarriage. ⁣ ⁣ I want to honor and remember that moment of my life. ⁣ ⁣ At the same time, I don’t want to stay “stuck” or in pain. ⁣ ⁣ I think you can have both. ⁣ Holding on to what happened because it’s of such significance, and still live life with new moments and memories. ⁣ ⁣ Moving on makes me think I’d have to forget. ⁣

And I don’t want to ever forget. ⁣ That baby meant too much to me. ⁣ ⁣ ❤️⁣ ⁣ Dear Miscarriage Mama— ⁣ You do you. ⁣ Hold on to those moments. ⁣ Talk about your experience. ⁣ Don’t be afraid to keep talking about it. ⁣ I’m here for you. ⁣ ⁣ Can you tell me a little something about your babe? ⁣ Can you tell me a little something about your journey? ⁣ ⁣ I’m all ears. ⁣